We tell people to do this and that. Don't do this, don't do that, while we can't even ask ourselves to do the same things?

Kebohongan adalah Pengorbanan Orang Tua Pada Anak

Orang tua dalam hidupnya membuat kebohongan adalah sebuah pengorbanan demi kebaikan anaknya.

• Saat makan, jika makanan kurang, Ia akan memberikan makanan itu kpd anaknya dan berkata, “Cepatlah makan, kami tidak lapar.”
• Waktu makan, Ia selalu menyisihkan ikan dan daging untuk anaknya dan berkata, “kami tdk suka daging, makanlah, nak..”
• Tengah mlm saat dia sedang menjaga anaknya yang sakit, Ia berkata,
  “Istirahatlah nak, kami masih belum ngantuk..”
• Saat anak sudah tamat sekolah, bekerja, mengirimkan uang untuk orang tua. Ia berkata, “Simpanlah untuk keperluanmu nak, kami masih punya uang.”
• Saat anak sudah sukses, menjemput ortunya utk tinggal di rumah besar, Ia lantas berkata, “Rumah tua kita sangat nyaman, kami tidak terbiasa tinggal di sana.”
• Saat menjelang tua, orang tua sakit keras, anaknya akan menangis, tetapi mereka masih bisa tersenyum sambil berkata, “Jangan menangis, kami tidak apa apa.” Ini adalah kebohongan terakhir yang dibuat ortu.

Tidak peduli seberapa kaya kita, seberapa dewasanya kita, orang tua selalu menganggap kita anak kecilnya, mengkhawatirkan diri kita tapi tdk prnh membiarkan kita mengkhawatirkan dirinya.

Anak harus memahami setiap kebohongan orang tua. Kebohongan orangtua adalah pengorbanan terbesar orangtua kepada anaknya. Orangtua adalah malaikat nyata yang dikirim Tuhan untuk menjaga anaknya

random

sesederhana itu..

aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana. 

seperti sebuah kecup perlahan di bangun pagi
 dan satu peluk yang sebentar saja.

deep sigh...

a tough year, indeed.

too many ups and downs and roller coaster movements.

:(

'when tears are no longer able to flow,

it's when you're hurt the most'

got HAPPINESS?

The summit of happiness is reached when a person is ready to be what he is.

Erasmus

There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year’s course.

Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word ‘happy’ would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.

Carl Jung

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don’t have.

Woody Allen

Don’t cry because its over, smile because it happened.

Unknown

Life is a bridge. Cross over it, but build no house on it

Indian Proverb

 

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

George Bernard Shaw

If you’re going through hell, keep going.

Winston Churchill

 

Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.

Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.

Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.

Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.

Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.

But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.

Buddha